{"id":7300,"date":"2025-04-01T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-01T05:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/?p=7300"},"modified":"2025-04-01T08:43:54","modified_gmt":"2025-04-01T05:43:54","slug":"cum-sa-ti-iubesti-fiica-de-hila-blum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/?p=7300","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103-\u021bi iube\u0219ti fiica, de Hila Blum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Yoela a cople\u0219it-o pe fiica ei, Leah, cu toat\u0103 dragostea, de la na\u0219tere p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd aceasta a crescut \u0219i a plecat singur\u0103 prin lume timp de c\u00e2\u021biva ani, f\u0103r\u0103 ca p\u0103rin\u021bii ei s\u0103 \u0219tie ce face. \u0218i-a \u00eentemeiat singur\u0103 o familie \u0219i are copii, dar a \u021binut totul bine ascuns de mama sa. Yoela nu \u00een\u021belege unde s-a produs ruptura dac\u0103 dragostea pentru fiica ei a fost constant\u0103 \u0219i at\u00e2t de puternic\u0103. \u00cencercarea de a d\u0103rui dragoste a fost cople\u0219itoare; de\u0219i a iubit-o pe Leah cu toat\u0103 fiin\u021ba ei, se pare c\u0103 totu\u0219i nu a \u0219tiut cum s-o iubeasc\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce to\u021bi anii de copil\u0103rie \u0219i adolescen\u021b\u0103 ai fetei au fost sufoca\u021bi de prezen\u021ba mamei, \u00eenstr\u0103inarea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se produc\u0103, Leah a prins gustul libert\u0103\u021bii c\u00e2nd a \u00eenceput s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103toreasc\u0103 \u0219i nu s-a mai \u00eentors acas\u0103. Yoela a pierdut obiectul iubirii iar faptul c\u0103 fiica sa are propria familie, c\u0103 nu mai este doar a ei, pare s\u0103 doar\u0103 foarte tare. Ne poveste\u0219te aproape toat\u0103 via\u021ba petrecut\u0103 cu Leah, ne \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te toate g\u00e2ndurile, emo\u021biile, sentimentele ei \u00een diverse situa\u021bii, dar romanul se sf\u00e2r\u0219e\u0219te iar ea pare s\u0103 nu fi \u00een\u021beles unde a gre\u0219it. \u00centr-un mod demn de dispre\u021b, intervine \u00een traseul vie\u021bii personale construite de Leah, sper\u00e2nd s\u0103 o aib\u0103 din nou pentru ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Roman intim, confesiune a protagonistei despre rela\u021bia cu fiica, dar \u0219i despre rela\u021bia din trecut cu p\u0103rin\u021bii ei, \u00een special cu mama, cartea aceasta este predominant despre maternitate \u0219i dragoste, condimentat\u0103 cu aspira\u021bii, frustr\u0103ri, dezam\u0103giri, ne\u00een\u021belegeri. Este o carte mai mult despre <em>cum s\u0103 NU-\u021bi iube\u0219ti fiica<\/em>, \u00een care o mam\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu <em>\u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103<\/em> de fiica ei \u00eei poart\u0103 permanent o grij\u0103 exagerat\u0103, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 controleze \u0219i s\u0103 modeleze toate etapele din dezvoltarea fetei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Dar eram \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103 de fiica mea \u0219i eram \u00eennebunit\u0103 dup\u0103 tot ce f\u0103cea. Era ca o exorcizare, un sarcasm u\u0219or \u00eempotriva deochiului. Fiica mea \u00eemi umplea inima, iar eu trebuia s\u0103-mi rev\u0103rs iubirea doar pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin, s\u0103 n-o risipesc.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yoela a cople\u0219it-o pe fiica ei, Leah, cu toat\u0103 dragostea, de la na\u0219tere p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd aceasta a crescut \u0219i a plecat singur\u0103 prin lume timp de c\u00e2\u021biva ani, f\u0103r\u0103 ca &hellip; <\/p>\n<div class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/?p=7300\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8222;Cum s\u0103-\u021bi iube\u0219ti fiica, de Hila Blum&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7301,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[202],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zigzag-prin-literatura-universala"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7300"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7300\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7304,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7300\/revisions\/7304"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7301"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogbjc.bjc.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}